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August 19, 2016 By Castimonia

Ex-NFL Player Darren Sharper Sentenced to 18 Years for Drugging and Raping Women

posted at: http://time.com/4457731/darren-sharper-sentenced-rapes/

(NEW ORLEANS) — Former NFL star Darren Sharper has been sentenced to 18 years and four months in prison in a case where he was accused of drugging and raping as many as 16 women in four states.

U.S. District Judge Jane Triche Milazzo sentenced Sharper on Thursday. He earlier pleaded guilty in federal court in New Orleans to drugging three women so he could rape them. He also has pleaded guilty or no contest in state courts in Louisiana, Arizona, California and Nevada to charges arising from allegations of drugging and raping women.

Prosecutors suggested a 9-year prison term for Sharper under a multi-jurisdictional plea deal, but Milazzo rejected it as too lenient in June. The sentence, 18 years and four months imprisonment, was 15 months short of the maximum. He was also fined $20,000.

Sharper’s family left the courtroom without speaking to reporters. Defense attorney Billy Gibbens said later that the federal sentence won’t affect plea agreements in the four state courts.

Sharper pleaded guilty in federal court to three counts of distributing drugs with rape as the aim. He or his friend Brandon Licciardi, a former sheriff’s deputy in neighboring St. Bernard Parish, put anti-anxiety drugs or sedatives into women’s drinks so they could rape them, according to a 15-page statement signed as part of that plea.

Milazzo has scheduled sentencing Oct. 13 for Licciardi and a second New Orleans codefendant, Erik Nunez.

Charges around the country involve nine victims, but Milazzo has said in court that there may be as many as 16.

Like Sharper, Licciardi and Nunez admitted distributing drugs with the intent to commit rape. Their plea agreements say Licciardi has accepted a 17-year sentence, with 10 years for Nunez.

Sharper was named All-Pro six times and chosen for the Pro Bowl five times during a career that included stints with the Green Bay Packers and Minnesota Vikings. He played in two Super Bowls, one with the Packers as a rookie and one with New Orleans Saints when they won in 2010.

He ended a 14-year career in 2011. He was working as an NFL network analyst when women began telling police in several cities similar stories of blacking out while drinking with him and waking up groggy to find they had been sexually abused.

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August 11, 2016 By Castimonia

Head of Christian charity admits sex addiction, embezzlement of nearly $500K

Originally posted: http://www.christianexaminer.com/article/head-of-christian-charity-embezzled-nearly-500000/50721.htm

by Gregory Tomlin | 19 May, 2016

CEDAR RAPIDS, Iowa (Christian Examiner) – The former head of a Christian charity has admitted he used nearly half a million dollars in donations to support his sexual addiction, the Associated Press has reported.

Jon S. Petersen, until recently the president of World Ambassadors Ltd., supposedly an outreach to international college students, was formally charged with one count of filing a false tax return in 2013. Prosecutors claim Petersen did not disclose $114,000 he had siphoned off the charity and placed in his personal accounts.

Prosecutors have not said yet if more charges are forthcoming as the investigation deepens, but they seem likely since the misappropriation of funds extended over the years 2010-2014 – only a portion of the time Petersen claims he was plagued by his sexual addiction.

According to prosecutors and Petersen’s admission, he shifted $475,000 over four years from the charity to his personal checking account and used the funds to pay for his addiction, though the indictment did not explain how the money was spent. It did claim, however, that Petersen was also personally in deep credit card debt. He had also taken on a line of credit on his home.

World Ambassadors is not a well-funded charity. Reports from the years 2010-2014 indicate only 31-38 people contributed to the group annually. During the period, according to the Cedar Rapids Gazette, those donors contributed $476,466. Slightly less, $475,555, was deposited directly to Petersen’s personal accounts.

Petersen was released on bond and will be sentenced at a later date. He could spend up to three years in prison, must make restitution and could also be faced with a fine of up to $250,000.

According to the AP report, World Ambassadors Ltd. failed to complete the paperwork necessary to keep its non-profit status and had its tax-exemption removed. The Cedar Rapids paper, however, reports that the group is still registered as a non-profit “in good standing” with the Iowa secretary of state’s office.

World Ambassadors was founded in 1993. The Iowa secretary of state’s office dissolved the non-profit in 2003 for failure to file its annual report. It was reinstated several months later.

Christian Examiner was unable to locate a website or any social media page for the entity. However, a search of the address listed for the non-profit reveals that the foundation’s home is in the middle of a residential area – at the home of Jon and Catherine Petersen. Catherine is also listed as secretary and director of the non-profit.

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August 7, 2016 By Castimonia

“Pornography is good for relationships. It helps spice things up.”

Originally posted at: http://escapefromporn.com/2014/09/03/pornography-is-good-for-relationships-it-helps-spice-things-up/

Such a common argument from porn viewers, but it’s not true. Pornography actually deteriorates one’s ability to have empathy, while at the same time it sexualizes pain, domination and humiliation. While at first using porn may seem fun or beneficial, it inevitably leads to a drastic disconnect between partners. Porn is addictive, and leaves the viewer with a cache of images to pluck from memory. These images become your sexual partner…not the person you are with. Sexual interactions become about playing out a scene and not about enjoying your partner. What pornography really does is, place a very large wedge between couples. It’s skews expectations, desires, and boundaries. The sad truth is that most relationships suffer because of porn. Sexual intimacy is difficult to participate in when you have already masturbated a few times in one day. People think porn will teach you how to please your partner, but really it just teaches you to please yourself.

“Porn sex is not about making love, as the feelings and emotions we normally associate with such an act — connection, empathy, tenderness, caring, affection — are replaced by those more often connected with hate — fear, disgust, anger, loathing, and contempt.” – Gail Dines, Pornland

 

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August 5, 2016 By Castimonia

Ozzy Osbourne Says He’s a Sex Addict…

Originally posted on The Los Angeles Times Newspaper Website.  However, due to possible triggering items in that newspaper, it has not been linked.

by Christie D’Zurilla
08/03/2016

Ozzy Osbourne is a sex addict, his rep said Wednesday, by way of explaining the crash of the rocker’s marriage to Sharon Osbourne in May after a four-year affair went public.

“Over the last six years, Ozzy Osbourne has been dealing with a sex addiction,” the rep told People. The performer is undergoing “intense therapy.”

Meanwhile, Michelle Pugh, the other half of that affair, had a different story to tell. They met, she said, in 2011 when she first did his hair, and he made the first move a year later.

“When I say he gave me the greatest love of my life, I mean it,” Pugh told the magazine exclusively. “He made me feel like the most beautiful and worshiped woman in the world.”

The relationship “felt like an old-fashioned romance. Being courted. I loved it,” she said. “He made it clear to me and asked me not to see anyone else. We had a very real relationship.”

Ozzy, however, told People through his rep that he was “sorry if Ms. Pugh took their sexual relationship out of context” and said he “would like to apologize to the other women he has been having sexual relationships with.”

Ouch.

Sharon Osbourne spoke about the situation on “The Talk” on Wednesday, revealing that when Ozzy gets back from touring with Black Sabbath, he’ll be going into inpatient treatment for three months.

“It’s hard because it affects the whole family, and it’s quite embarrassing to talk about,” she said, choking up. “Somehow drugs and drink is more acceptable, I think, but when it’s somebody who has a sex addiction, it’s embarrassing.”

However, always quick with a quip, she added, “I think he should call Tiger Woods for some advice.”

Sharon had been similarly vulnerable when she returned to “The Talk” after taking a day off during the uproar in May, saying she couldn’t “keep living like this.” In other words, it sounded as if the affair wasn’t a one-time deal.

Daughter Kelly Osbourne took shots at Pugh shortly after that, tweeting the hairstylist’s mobile number to the public along with a few choice comments slamming her.

Defending her dad against a Twitter critic who pointed out that Ozzy should be equally to blame in the situation, she said, “My father is almost 70 ever heard of elder abuse?” She continued to lash out against critics the next day, leading mom Sharon to compliment Kelly on her sense of humor during the next episode of “The Talk.”

“Oh, Kelly has the best sense of humor ever. And you know what? In cases like this, what can you do but laugh?” Sharon said to her cohosts. “You have to laugh. She is just so funny.”

Pugh, however, wasn’t laughing. She told People that she sent Kelly Osbourne a cease and desist letter in May, demanding that her number be taken down. She said she’s been followed to work by tabloid reporters.

Kelly and Sharon “have come out and attacked me, berated me, and publicly shamed me on a global scale,” she alleged. Now she’s suing for defamation, intentional infliction of emotional distress and public disclosure of private facts, according to court documents obtained by the magazine.

Kelly “went on a Twitter rampage,” Pugh said, “and she started getting responses the night that she tweeted my number out. Maybe four hours later, she started responding back to people. … I’m like, ‘elder abuse?’ We had a four-year relationship.”

That relationship hasn’t been enough to split the Osbournes. Sharon said in May that she’d kicked Ozzy out, but that he’d since moved back into their home and she’d moved out.

“The X Factor” judge told The Times in June that she was dealing with the drama in part by seeing a therapist regularly on her own and as a couple with Ozzy, and that he was doing therapy alone as well.

“I’m seeing what it’s like living on my own. … It’s very hard because we’re 34 years married, 36 years living as a couple, and I’ve known him for 40 years,” she said. “Of course, you miss that person.”

Sharon, 63, laid down the law about what she would need before she took back her 67-year-old husband.

“Respect. … I didn’t get that. It’s very hurtful when you don’t get that respect and consideration from your partner… Can I ever trust him again? I don’t know. I’m now questioning every statement, every move. … The lies and intrigue still hurt…

“Ideally, I would love for my husband to deal with his issues and work at the problems that he has now.  And be honest and open … to be able to come back to us with honesty and respect for the family. That’s what I really wish.”

In late July, she confirmed they were back together as a couple.

“I just can’t think of my life without him,” Sharon told her “The Talk” cohosts. “Even though he is a dog. He’s a dirty dog. So there we are. He’s going to pay big.”

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July 28, 2016 By Castimonia

Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 8: Recovery Resources (Books)

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast08-mavergeorge-book-resources.mp3

Episode 8.

In this mini-podcast episode, Tim Mavergeorge and Doug discuss some great recovery books as resources for those seeking help and healing. Our spiritual path needs guidance from those that have gone before us, so they share a few resources that can be beneficial to those looking for something better.

This list isn’t designed to be exhaustive, but it should allow those to have a starting point for those looking to replace certain behaviors with reading resources that can lead to increased positive relationships, thinking, and living.

Please email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org with more book suggestions that we can add to future resource podcasts.

Here are the books that were discussed (in order):

Patrick Carnes — “Don’t Call it Love” and “Out of the Shadows” — workbook available

Milton Magness — “Stop Sex Addiction”

Joe Dallas — “The Game Plan” — 30 day plan

Russell Willingham — “Breaking Free”

William Struthers — “Wired for Intimacy” (Medical and brain chemistry in addiction)

Mark Laaser — “Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction”

Stephen Arterburn — “Every Man’s Battle” (not specific for sex addiction)

Deb Laaser — “Shattered Vows” (for wives)

Barbara Steffens — “Your Sexually Addicted Spouse”

Jason Martinkus — “Worthy of Her Trust”

Al Cole — “Shadow Christian”

Donald Miller — “Scary Close”

Kristen A. Jenson — “Good Pictures, Bad Pictures” (resource for talking to kids)

For more information on the Houston Center for visit http://www.christiancounselinghouston.com/

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