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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 134: Interview with Dana Hargus

Today on the Purity Podcast, Chris interviews Dana Hargus, licensed professional counselor and founder of Restore of Ada, about the deep connection between trauma, nervous-system dysregulation, sexual addiction, and betrayal trauma.

This episode explores:

  • Why insight, willpower, and accountability alone often fail in sexual addiction recovery
  • How porn and compulsive sexual behaviors function as nervous-system regulation tools
  • The role of trauma and attachment wounds in relapse cycles
  • What betrayed partners experience in their bodies—not just their emotions
  • Why safety must be restored before intimacy or reconciliation is possible
  • How biofeedback and whole-person healing can create lasting transformation

Learn more about Dana’s work:
Restore of Ada – https://restoreofada.com

This conversation is essential listening for addicts, spouses, and leaders who want recovery that goes deeper than behavior modification.

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 133 – How to Sit With Your Wife’s Pain 

What does The Hunt for Red October have in common with helping your wife through her pain? 

In this episode, we explore what it actually means to sit with your wife’s pain after betrayal, and why most men struggle to do it well.

Using the framework of CVE: Compassion, Validation, and Empathy, we look at why pain isn’t a problem to solve, but a reality to enter. You’ll hear why explaining, defending, or minimizing often makes things worse, and how true empathy requires proximity, not emotional distance.

We also draw an unexpected parallel between cybersecurity incident response and marriage recovery, unpacking why ignored vulnerabilities create more damage over time—and how moving toward pain can neutralize its destructive power.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why compassion begins with seeing, not fixing
  • How validation acknowledges reality without surrendering truth
  • Why empathy is proximity, not detachment
  • How distancing yourself from pain allows it to grow more destructive
  • What Scripture teaches about presence, listening, and emotional safety

How to repair when you get CVE wrong (because you will)

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 132: Interview with Rick Reynolds

Today on the Purity Podcast, Chris is interviewing Rick Reynolds, LCSW, founder and president of AffairRecovery.com. Rick brings more than three decades of clinical experience helping individuals and couples heal from the devastation of infidelity, along with the weight and credibility of his own story of betrayal and restoration that began in 1984. As the pioneer behind the first anonymous, online group recovery programs for affair recovery, Rick has counseled thousands of couples and guided many more through structured, hope-filled pathways toward healing. His work is marked not by shame or blame, but by honesty, accountability, vulnerability, and a deep belief that real transformation is possible even after profound relational trauma.
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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 131 – Taylor Chambers Interview

In this episode, we sit down with therapist, coach, and author Taylor Chambers — founder of The Good and the Free. Taylor opens up about his own journey through religious upbringing, porn addiction, relapse, and the long — and still ongoing — process of rebuilding his life. He shares why traditional addiction-recovery rhetoric fell short for him and many clients, and how he reinvented a path rooted in sexual health, mindfulness, deep intimacy, and self-leadership.

We dive deep into topics like:

  • The emotional and spiritual impact of pornography and shame on men’s lives
  • Why willpower and “white-knuckling it” often fail — and what works instead
  • What sexual wholeness, relational integrity and healthy intimacy truly look like
  • How to rebuild trust, connection, and emotional honesty in relationships after addiction
  • Practical steps for recovery that don’t just remove porn — but redefine sexuality, identity, and purpose
  • How to raise children and care for future generations in a porn-saturated world

Whether you’re struggling yourself or supporting someone you love, this conversation offers a refreshing, compassionate, hope-filled framework for healing and growth.

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 130: Disrupting Demand: The Hidden Link Between Porn and Trafficking

In this powerful conversation, Chris sits down with Joe Madison, founder of Demand Disruption, an organization dedicated to ending human trafficking by addressing the demand side—the buyers. Joe exposes some of the hardest truths about exploitation, pornography, and the cultural attitudes that fuel the trafficking market.

This episode is a wake-up call for men pursuing purity, integrity, and Christ-centered recovery. Joe explains why fighting demand is essential, how pornography shapes buyer behavior, and what real change looks like inside our churches, communities, and personal lives.

If you’ve ever wondered how your pursuit of purity connects to the fight against human trafficking, this episode will connect the dots in ways you’ve likely never heard before.

Demand Disruption – Learn more about Joe’s work: www.demanddisruption.org

Disruption University – Training and education programs: disruptionu.demanddisruption.org