Source: (Adapted from the article, Weathering The Storms Of Life by Noel Yeatts; Christian Counseling Connection Vol. 16/Iss.1)
The following article excerpt is based on one’s overwhelming life struggle and what was learned.
How does one who is going through unbearable and indescribable pain, misery, and uncertainty face this deep, dark struggle? One answer is to believe that God is going to do incredible things through this trial of life.
However, before God can use us in light of this circumstance, He made need to teach us come critical lessons as follows:
1. God is ultimately in control and He has our best interest at heart.
Every one of us will be called upon to face adversity. It is a fact of life. We may not be able to see the reason for our trials and challenges, and we might not know the purpose right away, but rest assured that God is sovereign and is working behind the scenes for our benefit.
2. We are never alone.
Even on our weakest days, God is with us. He will never forsake us and longs to gather us under His wings of protection.
3. We need to focus on what really matters.
Charles Swindoll says, “We shouldn’t deny the pain of what happens in our lives. We should just refuse to focus on the valleys.” Consider what is most important to you in life. Then decide not to waste your time and energy worrying about the small stuff. When you focus on what really matters, your family becomes more valuable to you than ever before and each moment becomes so precious.
4. We need to cope one day at a time.
When you are going through a storm, don’t try to take on your entire life—live one day at a time. Minimize the bad days. Maximize the good days. Thank God for today and accept it.