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August 9, 2016 By Castimonia

Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 11: Pornography Addiction Help – www.pornknow.org

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast11-pornknow.mp3

Pornknow.org is a group based in the Houston area that seeks to open up the barriers that prevent parents from engaging with their kids in conversations about porn. This podcast is an interview with the founder, Beau that captures his heart for the mission to get the message to all those who are suffering as well as educate our children effectively.

Beau and Doug discuss the real dangers of pornography, and how Pornknow is engaging in the fight.

Learn how you can have pornknow.org give seminars at your church as well as learn about the tremendous free resource on their website.

Pornography isn’t just going away, and we need to be ready to talk openly about it. We need to know what avenues are available in seeking help as the nation begins to realize the grip that porn has on our society.

Visit www.pornknow.org to learn more about Beau’s organization and learn how to join the fight.  Also make sure to visit www.pornharmsresearch.com for the statistical information.

Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information or to give us your feedback, and remember that you are not walking this road alone!

Filed Under: podcast, Podcasts, Purity Podcast, Sex Addiction Podcast, Sexual Purity Posts Tagged With: addiction, Affairs, alcoholic, castimonia, Character Defects, christian, co-dependency, Emotions, escorts, father wound, gratification, healing, Intimacy, Jesus Christ, lust, masturbation, porn, pornography, pornstar, pornstars, prostitute, prostitutes, ptsd, purity, recovery, Sex, sex addict, sex addiction, sexual, sexual addiction, sexual impurity, sexual purity, spouses, trauma

August 7, 2016 By Castimonia

“Pornography is good for relationships. It helps spice things up.”

Originally posted at: http://escapefromporn.com/2014/09/03/pornography-is-good-for-relationships-it-helps-spice-things-up/

Such a common argument from porn viewers, but it’s not true. Pornography actually deteriorates one’s ability to have empathy, while at the same time it sexualizes pain, domination and humiliation. While at first using porn may seem fun or beneficial, it inevitably leads to a drastic disconnect between partners. Porn is addictive, and leaves the viewer with a cache of images to pluck from memory. These images become your sexual partner…not the person you are with. Sexual interactions become about playing out a scene and not about enjoying your partner. What pornography really does is, place a very large wedge between couples. It’s skews expectations, desires, and boundaries. The sad truth is that most relationships suffer because of porn. Sexual intimacy is difficult to participate in when you have already masturbated a few times in one day. People think porn will teach you how to please your partner, but really it just teaches you to please yourself.

“Porn sex is not about making love, as the feelings and emotions we normally associate with such an act — connection, empathy, tenderness, caring, affection — are replaced by those more often connected with hate — fear, disgust, anger, loathing, and contempt.” – Gail Dines, Pornland

 

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August 5, 2016 By Castimonia

Ozzy Osbourne Says He’s a Sex Addict…

Originally posted on The Los Angeles Times Newspaper Website.  However, due to possible triggering items in that newspaper, it has not been linked.

by Christie D’Zurilla
08/03/2016

Ozzy Osbourne is a sex addict, his rep said Wednesday, by way of explaining the crash of the rocker’s marriage to Sharon Osbourne in May after a four-year affair went public.

“Over the last six years, Ozzy Osbourne has been dealing with a sex addiction,” the rep told People. The performer is undergoing “intense therapy.”

Meanwhile, Michelle Pugh, the other half of that affair, had a different story to tell. They met, she said, in 2011 when she first did his hair, and he made the first move a year later.

“When I say he gave me the greatest love of my life, I mean it,” Pugh told the magazine exclusively. “He made me feel like the most beautiful and worshiped woman in the world.”

The relationship “felt like an old-fashioned romance. Being courted. I loved it,” she said. “He made it clear to me and asked me not to see anyone else. We had a very real relationship.”

Ozzy, however, told People through his rep that he was “sorry if Ms. Pugh took their sexual relationship out of context” and said he “would like to apologize to the other women he has been having sexual relationships with.”

Ouch.

Sharon Osbourne spoke about the situation on “The Talk” on Wednesday, revealing that when Ozzy gets back from touring with Black Sabbath, he’ll be going into inpatient treatment for three months.

“It’s hard because it affects the whole family, and it’s quite embarrassing to talk about,” she said, choking up. “Somehow drugs and drink is more acceptable, I think, but when it’s somebody who has a sex addiction, it’s embarrassing.”

However, always quick with a quip, she added, “I think he should call Tiger Woods for some advice.”

Sharon had been similarly vulnerable when she returned to “The Talk” after taking a day off during the uproar in May, saying she couldn’t “keep living like this.” In other words, it sounded as if the affair wasn’t a one-time deal.

Daughter Kelly Osbourne took shots at Pugh shortly after that, tweeting the hairstylist’s mobile number to the public along with a few choice comments slamming her.

Defending her dad against a Twitter critic who pointed out that Ozzy should be equally to blame in the situation, she said, “My father is almost 70 ever heard of elder abuse?” She continued to lash out against critics the next day, leading mom Sharon to compliment Kelly on her sense of humor during the next episode of “The Talk.”

“Oh, Kelly has the best sense of humor ever. And you know what? In cases like this, what can you do but laugh?” Sharon said to her cohosts. “You have to laugh. She is just so funny.”

Pugh, however, wasn’t laughing. She told People that she sent Kelly Osbourne a cease and desist letter in May, demanding that her number be taken down. She said she’s been followed to work by tabloid reporters.

Kelly and Sharon “have come out and attacked me, berated me, and publicly shamed me on a global scale,” she alleged. Now she’s suing for defamation, intentional infliction of emotional distress and public disclosure of private facts, according to court documents obtained by the magazine.

Kelly “went on a Twitter rampage,” Pugh said, “and she started getting responses the night that she tweeted my number out. Maybe four hours later, she started responding back to people. … I’m like, ‘elder abuse?’ We had a four-year relationship.”

That relationship hasn’t been enough to split the Osbournes. Sharon said in May that she’d kicked Ozzy out, but that he’d since moved back into their home and she’d moved out.

“The X Factor” judge told The Times in June that she was dealing with the drama in part by seeing a therapist regularly on her own and as a couple with Ozzy, and that he was doing therapy alone as well.

“I’m seeing what it’s like living on my own. … It’s very hard because we’re 34 years married, 36 years living as a couple, and I’ve known him for 40 years,” she said. “Of course, you miss that person.”

Sharon, 63, laid down the law about what she would need before she took back her 67-year-old husband.

“Respect. … I didn’t get that. It’s very hurtful when you don’t get that respect and consideration from your partner… Can I ever trust him again? I don’t know. I’m now questioning every statement, every move. … The lies and intrigue still hurt…

“Ideally, I would love for my husband to deal with his issues and work at the problems that he has now.  And be honest and open … to be able to come back to us with honesty and respect for the family. That’s what I really wish.”

In late July, she confirmed they were back together as a couple.

“I just can’t think of my life without him,” Sharon told her “The Talk” cohosts. “Even though he is a dog. He’s a dirty dog. So there we are. He’s going to pay big.”

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August 5, 2016 By Castimonia

Psalm 51

Originally posted at: http://purehope.net/psalm-51/

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This summer on facebook, our interns took you through Psalm 51.  One of ours and the interns’ and favorite things to do is 51//58 prayer.  Praying through Psalm 51 for personal repentance and the pursuit of purity, followed by praying through Isaiah 58 for church revival and the pursuit of justice.  We finished today, so here is the full compilation of those posts for your devotional delight…

Psalm 51:1-2
To the choirmaster. A Psalm of David, when Nathan the prophet went to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba. Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin!

David cries out to God for forgiveness after he committed adultery with Bathsheba (see 2 Samuel 11) with a desperation for healing and sanctification that we should all desire.

Psalm 51:3-4
For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment.

We can’t properly turn to God in repentance until we acknowledge our sin. Jesus Himself said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.” As long as we think we are “okay”, we will walk as if we have no need of Him.

Psalm 51:5-7
Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me.  Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being, and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart.  Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean; wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. (Bonus: Our staff is loving this band, Rivers & Robots check out their song White As Snow)

Notice what David does not say: “Hold on, God, while I try and clean myself.” He understands that cleansing is the work of God. May we come before Him in humble repentance and ask Him to do what only He can do.

Psalm 51:8-10
Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones that you have broken rejoice.  Hide your face from my sins, and blot out all my iniquities.  Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.

It is an interior issue! David gets it. Jesus called the Pharisees out in Matthew 23 for being like whitewashed tombs, clean on the outside but dirty on the inside. David petitions, “Renew me from the inside out.” Lord, create a clean heart in all of us.

Psalm 51:11-13
Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me.  Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit. Then I will teach transgressors your ways, and sinners will return to you.

Though this Psalm is written in repentance from a sexual sin, David doesn’t mention sexual sin once. His prayer is for the joy of the Lord. Why? Because David understands the heart of the issue: that he’s not seeking to be satisfied in God. And what is the natural flow of having the joy of the Lord in you? You’ll want to tell others about Him and serve Him. Faithful living always begins with being satisfied in Him.

Psalm 51:14-15
Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God, O God of my salvation, and my tongue will sing aloud of your righteousness. O Lord, open my lips, and my mouth will declare your praise.

David prays for deliverance because in his sin, his worship of God is hindered. Where is our heart in repentance? Our prayers for freedom should ultimately be so that we can enjoy Him more. And in freedom we will enjoy Him more.

Psalm 51:16-17
For you will not delight in sacrifice, or I would give it; you will not be pleased with a burnt offering. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.

He doesn’t just want our lip service or our good deeds- He wants our heart. Cry out to the Lord, come before him with a humble and broken heart. His word promises he will not reject that. He will receive you. And He will bring forgiveness and freedom.

Psalm 51:18-19
Do good to Zion in Your good pleasure; build up the walls of Jerusalem; then will You delight in right sacrifices, in burnt offerings and whole burnt offerings; then bulls will be offered on Your altar.

David is acknowledging that because of his leadership, his sin has a communal effect. His repentance and earnest pursuit of the Most High, then, can also have a profound impact on his kingdom. David’s prayer begins with himself and ends with a longing for the good of his people.

Jesus, we pray akin to David’s prayer: Cleanse us individually, build us up together. You are our Cornerstone! May our worship be a fragrant offering.

 

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August 4, 2016 By Castimonia

Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 10: Step One Continued

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/podcast10-step-one-continued.mp3

Step one takes a lot of work to look deeply into beginning change. We need to first see the true cost of our insane behavior, so we can begin to build a life free from sexual impurity.

Learn how to find the true cost of our behaviors as well as what is meant by a “public first step”. Learn how publicly confessing can lead to healing.

Jorge and Doug discuss the pros of taking a deep look into our family of origin, our unmanageability, and our denial in these second part of the series on “Step One”

Email us at puritypodcast@castimonia.org for more information or to give us your feedback, and remember that you are not walking this road alone!

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