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June 27, 2018 By Castimonia

19 Quote Reminders You Need To Hear When You’re Feeling Insecure

by Thought Catalog

1. “It is never too late to be what you might have been.” ― George Eliot

2. “When you’re different, sometimes you don’t see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn’t.” – Jodi Picoult

3. “I wish I could just go tell all the young women I work with, all these fabulous women, ‘Believe in yourself and negotiate for yourself. Own your own success.’ I wish I could tell that to my daughter. But it’s not that simple.” – Sheryl Sandberg

4. “You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

5. “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” ― Helen Keller

6. “It is confidence in our bodies, minds, and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures.” – Oprah Winfrey

7. “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be?” – Marianne Williamson

8. “You yourself, as much as anyone in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” – Buddha

9. “I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou

10. “You are a piece of the puzzle of someone else’s life. You may never know where you fit, but others will fill the holes in their lives with pieces of you.” – Bonnie Arbon

11. “I’ve finally stopped running away from myself. Who else is there better to be?” – Goldie Hawn

12. “If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” ― Martin Luther King Jr.

13. “I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordan

14. “It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else’s eyes.” – Sally Field

15. “The only person who can pull me down is myself, and I’m not going to let myself pull me down anymore.” ― C. JoyBell C.

16. “When teachers doubt your potential, show them how wrong they truly are.” ― Ace Antonio Hall

17. “Don’t let fear or insecurity stop you from trying new things. Believe in yourself. Do what you love. And most importantly, be kind to others, even if you don’t like them.” – Stacy London

18. “Whatever you want in life, other people are going to want it too. Believe in yourself enough to accept the idea that you have an equal right to it.” – Diane Sawyer

19. “A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her.” – David Brinkley

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June 26, 2018 By Castimonia

Journal Through Recovery – Bonus Podcast #17 Wounds

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Journal-Through-Recovery-Bonus-Podcast-17-Wounds.mp3

 

Emotional wounds affect all of us.

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June 25, 2018 By Castimonia

What’s Holding You Down?

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June 24, 2018 By Castimonia

Same Sex Attraction Speaker Event 6-26

We are posting this message in an effort to help individuals who struggle with unwanted same sex attraction (SSA).

On Tuesday night, Melissa Fisher will be speaking at Kingsland Baptist Church in Katy from 7:00-8:30 p.m. This free event (Though they are requesting RSVP) is being billed as helping family and friends of Same Sex Attraction(SSA) strugglers.  I must say that I read Melissa’s autobiographical book (The Way of Hope) recently and it was hugely impactful.  Her writing is compelling and gripping with her transparency and the life events that led up to her SSA.     It is very powerful even when this is not your struggle.  Real broken life encounter deep Jesus moments.  So if you are available, I’ll see you Tuesday @ KBC.

This link is to view the event particulars and to RSVP by Monday @ 12:00 noon.

http://kingsland.org/resources/events-calendar/41/

This link is a sermon that was preached this past Sunday (6-17) @ KBC where Melissa spoke during a part of the message
http://kingsland.org/media/sermons/same-sex-attraction/126/

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June 23, 2018 By Castimonia

Read This If You Feel Unworthy

Originally posted on Thought Catalog

“You are not an accident”

I was sitting in my room one morning when this phrase came to me in a fit of inspiration. I was feeling down on myself about things I could be doing better, ways that I wasn’t living up to what other people wanted from me. How I wasn’t this enough or that enough. How I wasn’t successful enough after an expensive college education and doing everything that all of us are told to do in order to be successful.

After going through these feelings one by one, it dawned on me that despite this obsession with perfection – by people, institutions, and the media alike – it’s unattainable and I shouldn’t feel bad for being who I am right now. Right in this moment. Even if that person is a work in progress there is still meaning to my existence.

I happen to deeply believe that everything happens for a reason and there is a purpose to all of the crazy, wacky, disturbing, and unsettling things that happen to me – whether I play a part in it or not. Even if I don’t understand all of it, it’s not my job to understand all of it.

I am not an accident.

In that moment, I reached for a post-it note and wrote that quote down in sharpie to tape to my bedroom wall.

Whether you believe in God or not, isn’t it a beautiful sentiment?

The way that you are, the things you feel, your shining moments along with your doubts and insecurities – they’re all what make you, you. You are the way that you are, undoubtedly. And no part of it is wrong. It is part of your humanness.

You are not wrong.

We all have flaws. Our flaws and struggles are a gift, given to us so that we may transcend them and help others see their way out of their hardships more clearly.

If you believe in Christian philosophies, then you have probably heard the phrase/affirmation:

“I am fearfully & wonderfully made” – Psalm 139:14

By believing this, you take away all of the shame and self-hatred that is seemingly normalized by today’s culture. If the person you are today is good and fair and kind and doing their best, then you can cut yourself some slack. You may not be the most organized, the most devout, the most patient, the most put together – but if you’re showing up each day and you care then you’re already on a respectable path.

You’re Trying.

Whatever value or criticism others tell you aside from what you know about yourself is simply an opinion. Take it as such. And note that their opinion doesn’t matter so much anyway. That’s one of the many reasons why it is so important to get to know yourself, so you won’t live your life at the will of what other people tell you.

Ultimately, you’re the one who has to wake up each morning and live your life. So take it easy on yourself. Be kind to you. You’re not an accident. You have a purpose. Whether you assign yourself one, seek to find the one that God/the Universe has set for you, or don’t know exactly what it is yet – remember your worth and value.

As Elizabeth Gilbert wonderfully said in her new book Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear:

“The Fact that you are here – a creation of God – is proof that you deserve to be here.”

Exist. Take up space. Unapologetically. It’s your birthright.

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