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Grateful for Grace
We must not see grace as a provision made after the law had failed. Grace was offered before the law was revealed. Indeed, grace was offered before man was created! “You were bought, not with something that ruins like gold or silver, but with the precious blood of Christ, who was like a pure and perfect lamb. Christ was chosen before the world was made, but he was shown to the world in these last times for your sake” (1 Pet. 1:18–20 NCV).
Why would God offer grace before we needed it? Glad you asked. Let’s return one final time to the charge card my father gave me. Did I mention that I went several months without needing it? But when I needed it, I really needed it. You see, I wanted to visit a friend on another campus. Actually, the friend was a girl in another city, six hours away. On an impulse I skipped class one Friday morning and headed out. Not knowing whether my parents would approve, I didn’t ask their permission. Because I left in a hurry, I forgot to take any money. I made the trip without their knowledge and with an empty wallet.
Everything went fine until I rear-ended a car on the return trip. Using a crowbar, I pried the fender off my front wheel so the car could limp to a gas station. I can still envision the outdoor phone where I stood in the autumn chill. My father, who assumed I was on campus, took my collect call and heard my tale. My story wasn’t much to boast about. I’d made a trip without his knowledge, without any money, and wrecked his car.
“Well,” he said after a long pause, “these things happen. That’s why I gave you the card. I hope you learned a lesson.”
Did I learn a lesson? I certainly did. I learned that my father’s forgiveness predated my mistake. He had given me the card before my wreck in the event that I would have one. He had provided for my blunder before I blundered. Need I tell you that God has done the same? Please understand; Dad didn’t want me to wreck the car. He didn’t give me the card so that I would wreck the car. But he knew his son. And he knew his son would someday need grace.
Please understand; God doesn’t want us to sin. He didn’t give us grace so we would sin. But he knows his children. “He made their hearts and understands everything they do” (Ps. 33:15 NCV). “He knows how we were made” (Ps. 103:14 NCV). And he knew that we would someday need his grace.
Today’s devotional is drawn from Max Lucado’s Second Chances.
From Salads to Casseroles
Originally posted at: https://applyingmybeliefs.wordpress.com/2016/06/19/from-salads-to-casseroles/
For those that don’t know, there is an organization called “The American Society of Addiction Medicine” (ASAM). This organization and their website are primarily for physicians of course, but does have some useful and interesting information for us non-medical people. They have a short and a long definition of addiction on their website:
Here is the short version:
Addiction is a primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory and related circuitry. Dysfunction in these circuits leads to characteristic biological, psychological, social and spiritual manifestations. This is reflected in an individual pathologically pursuing reward and/or relief by substance use and other behaviors.
Addiction is characterized by inability to consistently abstain, impairment in behavioral control, craving, diminished recognition of significant problems with one’s behaviors and interpersonal relationships, and a dysfunctional emotional response. Like other chronic diseases, addiction often involves cycles of relapse and remission. Without treatment or engagement in recovery activities, addiction is progressive and can result in disability or premature death.
This and the long version can be found here:
http://www.asam.org/quality-practice/definition-of-addiction
As I read this something quite odd struck me. This definition calls addiction a chronic disease, which I had heard before, but I had a new thought. I thought, “Why don’t churches look at this the same way they look at cancer, or heart disease or other significant chronic illnesses?” What is different?
As I pondered this, I came to a place I had come to before. At some level we in the church, mostly silently, believe that addiction is caused by sin, or even if we don’t struggle with that we are just plain uncomfortable with talking about glue sniffing or porn or hoarding or the many other addictions that are within our culture. And I also thought this, “Why don’t we also assume that heart disease or cancer are caused by sin?” There is much evidence that diseases like these are linked to the actions of our lifetime, for example colon cancer is linked to eating too much red meat to a certain extent; is this a product of the sin of gluttony at some level?
Anyway, my musing took me in a direction I didn’t expect, but felt the need to share.
In the church we care for each other. One of the great things churches do is to provide meals for those who have significant temporary troubles, including illnesses. We get a care calendar together and families volunteer to provide meals for a defined period of time. I was fortunate to be on the receiving end of this one time, as my wife recovered from some surgery. We had salads, and pasta dishes and chicken cooked many ways and of course the casseroles.
As I pondered this, I realized I had never heard of a church providing meals to a family who had put their son in a drug rehab. In cases of the major disease of addiction, which can devastate a family as deeply a cancer diagnosis can, the church doesn’t seem to provide care in this way. This could of course be partly due to that hidden thinking about addiction and sin from both the family affected and the church body.
Is this one of the reasons addicts and their families don’t recognize churches as caring places? Should churches endeavor to develop a care calendar for families affected by addiction?
What do you think?
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