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December 3, 2022 By Castimonia

Deck of Cards

Originally posted at: http://www.theresstillhope.org

We are all familiar with the metaphor about life that says we have all been “dealt a deck of cards.” You have to play the deck you’re dealt. You don’t get to play someone else’s hand.

In your deck were several jokers and wild cards, of which you had no control:

  • Place of birth
  • Generational sin
  • Parental neglect
  • Trauma
  • Physical attributes
  • Abuse

The key to recovery is not to ask for a new deck, but learning how to win with the deck you already have. The Bible says it like this: “A person who fears God deals responsibly with all of reality, not just a piece of it” (Ecclesiastes 7:18).

Recovery Step: It does no good to complain about your two of clubs. If you stick with the hand you have been dealt and stay in the game, you will eventually come out ahead.

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November 29, 2022 By Castimonia

Depth

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November 25, 2022 By Castimonia

Enthusiasm

Originally posted at: http://www.theresstillhope.org

Enthusiasm. You can’t do much without it. 

Paul advised, “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer” (Romans 12:11-12). 

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm.” 

Enthusiasm is not about positive thinking, sneaky psychological tricks, or becoming an optimist. The word “enthusiasm” comes from the Greek words en theos, which means “in God.” So enthusiasm is found in God. 

When you are in God, you will be enthusiastic about life, recovery, marriage, work, and church. 

Recovery Step: Pray this prayer today – “Dear God, I want to live every day in you. I want to find my joy in you. I find my hope in you.”

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November 22, 2022 By Castimonia

Hurt People, Hurt People

This holiday, remember, “hurt people, hurt people.” Or better said, unhealthy people who are hurting inside have a propensity to hurt those around them out of their own woundedness.

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November 21, 2022 By Castimonia

Apology

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