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November 20, 2024 By Castimonia

A Game You Can’t Win

originally posted at: http://www.theresstillhope.org

During the days of King Saul, the Israelites sang a song that got Saul’s goat: “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of thousands” (1 Samuel 18:7). 

Every time that song played on Spotify, it provoked a spirit of jealousy within Saul. “They credit David with tens of thousands and me with only thousands,” he said. “Next, they’ll be making him their king.” (1 Samuel 18:8). What did Saul do about it? “From that time on Saul kept a jealous eye on David” (1 Samuel 18:9).

Author Mark Batterson addresses this. “The irony of the story is that David was actually Saul’s greatest asset. He helped Saul save face against Goliath – and saved Saul’s kingdom. The beginning of the end came when Saul started playing the comparison game. No one wins the comparison game.”

There is only one person you should ever compare yourself or your recovery to. That is the person you were yesterday.

Recovery Step: Quit comparing yourself to others. Period.

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November 16, 2024 By Castimonia

Control

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November 8, 2024 By Castimonia

Fallen World

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October 27, 2024 By Castimonia

Porn Prayer

Originally posted at: https://potefwi.wordpress.com/2024/09/03/porn-prayer

Lord, before I plan to click on that image, remind me that what I will see is your image-bearer.

A son of Adam or a daughter of Eve who must not be an object of my exploitation because he or she is either an object of your just wrath or an object of your glorious grace.

I deserve the former, but you’ve given me the latter. So, make me a vessel of your grace. King David’s cup overflowed when he set his mind on you. Jesus said he is a spring of living water that never runs dry. Quench the deepest longings of my soul with yourself, dear Father. You who made me for Yourself.

You, Jesus, who turn scavengers into life givers because we are nourished by you. Have mercy on me, a sinner.

Show me the falsehood of what porn pretends to offer me. Show me the poison that it is. And turn me from a taker to a lover who is so full of you that I am free to love, with your love, an honest love, a giving love, a confident love, a bold love.

Set my heart, and my eyes, on the higher affections of Jesus Christ that I might imitate him. Empower me to see all people through your eyes, and with your heart. And help me to trust you to meet my real needs, in your time, and in your way.

Amen.

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October 25, 2024 By Castimonia

New Christ-centered Support Group For Spouses via Zoom – CLEMENTIA

I am happy to announce that a new support group for spouses has been created by the wife of one of our Castimonia members. Please contact them for the Zoom info. Contact information can be found on their website: http://www.clementiaonline.org

*Clementia is not run by Castimonia nor do we have any direct involvement in this ministry. However, in order to help the spouses of the members of Castimonia, we gratefully promote their ministry.

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