Originally posted at: https://sexuallypuremen.beehiiv.com/p/manage-addiction-cure
By Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D.
At a recent conference where I was speaking, someone challenged my premise that individuals learn to manage their addictions rather than cure them. I respect differing viewpoints, but this one sparked an important question: Does the term “managing” addiction create a misleading image of constant vulnerability? If so, that would be a very unrealistic image of someone who has successfully learned to manage their addiction.
But let us start by examining the idea that addictions can be cured. Cure means to eliminate a disease state. This would require the disease to be completely eradicated from the body. This does not apply to addiction because addiction is not a disease. Although many will debate that point, including the American Medical Association, which defines addiction as a chronic disease of the brain. Others, including myself, believe addiction is the result of behavioral, psychological, and environmental factors.
So, what does managing your addiction look like?
Recognizing your susceptibility: You have an addictive brain (prone to overstimulation) and a compulsive nature (you are more reactive than responsive).
Prioritizing well-being: Stay attuned and committed to your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health.
Knowing your core emotional triggers: Know what activates your Inner Child and stay one step ahead of them.
Nurturing connections: Build rich relationships with others and God to fill the void addiction could not.
Seeking help when needed: Be courageous to reach out before temptation takes hold.
Managing your addiction does not mean you battle with it. Many in sobriety don’t struggle at all, especially when they prioritize self-care and surround themselves with positive influences. There are no miracle cures for addiction; instead, long-term success is found with a commitment to being a more mature and responsible individual.
Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor certified in treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors. Among his many clients, he has worked with professional athletes, including NFL and MLB players and television personalities. He is a board member of Christian Sex Addiction Specialists International, an organization offering addiction certification for clinicians, coaches, clergy, and lay leaders.
