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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 128 – Brian Shillingburg Interview

Join Chris today as he interviews Brian Shillingburg. Brian is the founder of 9th Inning Project, where he walks with men out of pornography and sexual compulsivity through honest conversation, courageous accountability, and the transforming power of Jesus Christ. A certified Sexual Addiction Recovery Coach (SARC) with a master’s in education, Brian has spent his 25-year career developing people, building teams, and mentoring men through life’s most defining challenges—drawing deeply from his own journey through addiction and redemption. He coaches men 1:1 and in small groups and equips churches and leaders with practical pathways toward reconciliation and lasting freedom.

Learn more: 9thInningProject.com | brian@9thinningproject.com

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 127: Dan Johnson Interview

Today, Chris is interviewing Dan Johnson. Dan was on Episode 106 where he introduced his P.A.T.H. Plan. Today, he unpacks more of his strategy for recovery by telling us about a concept he calls the Frontline Framework. 

In order to have a solid recovery, you first have to have a solid plan. The Frontline Framework challenges you to have a predetermined plan, awareness of the moment, and reasons to implement the plan.

To learn more about Dan and the Groups he offers go to NewPaths.me.

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 126 – Jake Kastleman Interview

Many of us men don’t understand how to relate to our addiction with compassion. We get sober by suppressing the “addict parts” of our mind, without realizing the roots of our behaviors and what those parts were trying to do for us. We sit on top of them, try to control ourselves, and force our way through recovery. There is a better way. It is rooted in Christ. I teach my clients a systematic approach to utilize emotional mindfulness, parts work, embodiment, and self-compassion to use painful emotions like addiction cravings to deepen self-understanding and self-love, so they can lose their need for addiction over time.

Today Chris interviews Jake Kastleman. Jake is the founder of NoMoreDesire.com, a Christ-centered platform dedicated to helping men break free from unwanted sexual behavior and live whole, healed, and holy lives. What sets Jake apart is his deep commitment to inner transformation, not just outward sobriety. Through his writing, coaching, and online resources, Jake challenges men to do more than stop sinning—he invites them to start healing.

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 125: Building a Transformation Playbook

In this episode, Chris wraps up the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by equipping men with a practical Transformation Playbook. After exploring the four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—we now land on the heart of the journey: becoming the man God has called you to be.

This conversation isn’t about trying harder or managing your image—it’s about surrender, integrity, and living for Christ as your foundation. Whether you’re single, married, or divorced, God’s invitation remains the same: step into wholeness and freedom in Him.

Chris walks through:

  • The Heart of Transformation — why change must move from behavior management to heart surrender.
  • Eight Transformation Commitments — radical ownership, pursuing God first, daily surrender, choosing truth, welcoming accountability, humble repentance, building a new legacy, and living for an audience of One.
  • A Daily Transformational Rhythm — simple morning and evening practices to anchor your day in Christ.
  • Early Warning Signs of Drift — subtle ways men slip back into old patterns and how to course-correct before a crash.

Resources & Next Steps

  • Learn more about Castimonia meetings (in-person, Zoom, and phone): castimonia.org
  • Subscribe to the podcast for weekly hope and encouragement.
  • Share this episode with a brother who needs to hear it.
  • Evening Reflection Journal, by Lisa Archinal

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Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 124: Transformational: Living in Integrity

In this episode, Chris unpacks the Transformational Recovery Matrix—a simple but powerful way to see where you are in your recovery journey. The four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—show the difference between just managing sin and truly living free.

Chris shares his own turning point, when recovery stopped being a fight to “just stop sinning” and became a pursuit of wholeness. He explains the five core traits of transformational living—Integrity, Honesty & Transparency, Intimacy with Christ, Living with Purpose, and Gospel Dependence—along with real-life examples and practical steps any man can start today.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in shame, tired of white-knuckling your way through temptation, or wondered why sobriety still feels empty, this episode will help you shift from behavior management to heart transformation.

Key Scriptures: Proverbs 10:9, 1 John 1:7, John 15:5, Ephesians 2:10, 2 Corinthians 12:9