originally posted at: http://www.theresstillhope.org
In the middle of Jesus’ public ministry, we find this startling verse: “Many of his disciples turned back and no longer followed him” (John 6:66).
I would find that disheartening. My initial response would be to chase after those who had dropped out. Not so with Jesus. In the latter part of John 6, we find that Jesus made zero effort to chase down the deserters. Instead, he turned 100 percent of his attention to the 12 disciples who were still standing with him.
If you are helping others find recovery, I offer you three suggestions.
- Know that some will turn back.
- Focus on who you have left, rather than who you have lost.
- Don’t blame yourself for the decisions of others.
Recovery Step: Nothing will help you secure your own sobriety like helping someone else secure theirs. But not everyone will stick with the program. Be okay with that.