Originally posted at: theresstillhope.org
Patrick Carnes has identified four basic core beliefs of every sex addict:
- Something is wrong with me.
- If you knew me, you wouldn’t love me.
- I can’t depend on anyone but myself.
- My greatest need is sex.
At the root of every addiction is an intimacy disorder. Usually, this manifests itself with insecurity and low self-esteem. Perhaps now is a good time to remind you of your identity in Christ. Celebrate the following.
You are accepted (Romans 15:7), chosen (John 15:16), and free (Galatians 4:7). You are forgiven (1 John 1:9), a new person (2 Corinthians 5:17), and a child of God (John 1:12). Further, you are made in God’s image (Genesis 1:27) and you belong to Jesus (1 Corinthians 3:23).
Your “addict” is sending you one message. Your Savior is sending you a different message. Which one are you going to believe?
Recovery Step: Claim your identity in Christ.